I'm a
happily married man. My wife, Marissa, has stuck
with me for over 30 years now, I don't know what
I would do without her. We have stayed together
through everything: infidelity, family trouble,
illnesses, money problems? and we?ve never been
stronger. But there is one thing that is threatening
to ruin our wonderful marriage, and that is erectile
dysfunction. I have never had that problem before
and I don?t know how to deal with it, but it started
to affect our sexual life a couple of years ago.
I have difficulty talking about it because
these things have never been discussed in my
family. My father taught me how to be a man,
and that always stuck with me. Masculinity is
very important to me, and part of that is being
able to make love to my wife. Without that,
I didn't feel like a man anymore. That, I felt,
was the biggest blow to my self-esteem and confidence
that I have ever faced. I've always felt like
I was able to get through anything, but this
I didn?t understand. I needed help, and that
was not an easy thing for me.
My wife and I have never been afraid to talk
about anything. We've always communicated with
one another when there was a problem. I think
that is the basis of a strong marriage. But
when I was faced with erectile
disfunction, I was completely silent. I
had nothing to say and my wife didn't confront
me because she didn't know what to say either.
We were stuck. I didn't know where to turn,
so I turned to my friends. At work, I overheard
a friend talking about how he was having the
same problem in his life. I was too embarrassed
to tell him about my problems, so I listened.
I kept in touch with him about it over the coming
months. I was surprised to hear later that he
had discovered a wonderful new drug that was
able to help him out. It was called Cialis.
He said that he just swallowed one pill and
then a little while later he would have an erection.
He said that he and his wife had never gotten
along better than they were now. I was very
excited and very interested in looking into
this drug.
The hardest part for me was that in order to
get this drug, I had to go to a doctor and admit
my problem. For a long time I thought about
it, and I tried to do something, but I got nowhere.
Marissa could tell there was something wrong
with me, and she asked about it, so I told her.
I think that was the beginning of my success
story. It wasn?t easy, but I told the truth,
and that's when I got the courage to go to the
doctor and get some Cialis for myself.
I was officially diagnosed with erectile dysfunction,
although I was already sure of it. But the doctor
also told me that I was an ideal candidate for
Cialis.
I was very pleased to discover that the drug
worked very quickly and very thoroughly. I have
been able to make love with my wife again for
several months now, and they have been very
good months. I would like to thank the makers
of Cialis for all they have done for me.